Sometime this week I was in bus in town going to the market to get something. So there's this bus I entered and I was just observing things.
Here is what happened. There was this man who was already in the bus when I entered, in few minutes he got to his destination where he wants to alight. I was observing what was going to happen because normally we know that what causes problem between a passenger and a driver is just 50 naira 20 naira 10 naira balance that they wouldn't want to leave.
However,this driver of a person is just too gentle, honestly I have never seen this kind of gentle driver, there are others like him but they are rare.
Basically, we all know how they normally behave. I'm not saying there are no good ones, they are many. I'm also not generalizing that all drivers are that aggressive ..., but there's this attitude that road drivers have, especially the ones into town service.
Now the man brought out 1000 naira and gave it to the driver.. I do not know how much balance that the driver was supposed to give to him, but what I do know is that the driver was supposed to balance him 50 naira on top of that money.
Meanwhile he already saw that this driver does not have 50 naira he has searched himself, brought out all the money he has with him, there was no 50 naira the man gave the driver back the money and asked him to complete his balance. The driver asked how? Look at the money I have with me, nothing like 50 naira. The man kept insisting to have his balance.
I was watching curious to know what will happen. so what the driver did was he returned the 1,000 naira back to the man and asked him to look for the balance and then give him his own money and take his balance, the man was just standing, still telling the driver please give me my change give me my change, the driver was like from where or do you want me keep these people here all because of 50 naira, "(according to him, i don't want to keep my passengers waiting because of 50 naira)". All he was saying were falling on deaf ears, the man was just standing there he was not ready to go and look for balance ,he was now expecting the driver to come down and then start moving about to look for balance in order to give him that particular 50 naira.
I think the driver noticed that the man was in for trouble, he gently drove off to the man's greatest surprise. He wasn't expecting it.
My question is how will he feel knowing fully well that he ate money that's not meant for him. Will his conscience be at rest?
Why the whole long story?
Assume what would have happened if the driver didn't act that way, they may probably end up in a fight, and he will loose other passengers and his windscreen might end up shattering on the floor.
Let's always open our eyes to Identity trouble, smell it and walk away. It might seem like we've lost, but we saved ourselves a bigger chance at life and better opportunities to explore life. Because in the end one person will do something that he will forever regret.
✍️Esthy
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People and different mentality
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