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Finding a balance: the way forward



In a world where digital interactions dominate, finding balance between online and offline life is key to fostering real connections, improving mental well-being, and redefining success. 

Here’s how young people can navigate this paradox effectively:

1. Prioritizing Real-Life Connections

Be intentional about offline relationships – Instead of just texting, make time for face-to-face interactions. Whether it’s grabbing coffee, attending social events, or simply spending quality time with family, real-life moments create deeper bonds than virtual ones.

Engage in community activities – Volunteering, joining clubs, or participating in group activities can help build a strong support network beyond social media.

2. manage excessive social media use.

Create ‘no-phone’ zones – Avoid checking your phone during meals, before bed, or during personal conversations to enhance focus and engagement.

Unfollow accounts that trigger comparison – Curate social media feeds to follow pages that inspire, educate, or uplift rather than create anxiety.

3. Fostering Open Conversations

Normalize discussions about struggles – Mental health should not be a taboo topic. Encouraging open conversations with friends, mentors, or therapists can create a culture of support rather than silent suffering.

Support rather than compete – Social media often promotes comparison, but shifting towards uplifting others and celebrating personal growth can reduce stress and isolation.

4. Redefining Success and Self-Worth

Shift from external validation to self-fulfillment – Instead of measuring success by likes, followers, or online popularity, focus on personal growth, skills, and real-world achievements.


Find purpose beyond social media – Engage in activities that bring intrinsic joy, whether it’s learning new skills, reading, writing, or exploring creative hobbies.

Set personal goals – Define success on your own terms rather than based on what social media portrays as "ideal."

5. Cultivating Emotional

Practice gratitude – Focusing on real-life blessings rather than digital validation fosters a sense of contentment.


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